I thought all single women I saw at the sex club were unicorns – only after a few years (yes years!) did I learn that actually no – every single woman in the lifestyle had their own fantasies, wants and desires. Many single women didn’t want couples at all but came for the single men (in many cases – many single men).
Even as an experienced swinger I didn’t realize the diverse group of people around me.
The sex club and swinger world is so much broader than people may think. Many people who participate are into vastly different activities than others – some like to watch, some like to swap partners, some like power play dynamics and others like kink and pain.
It was when I went to “DTF” nights at my local sex clubs – a gang bang theme night for women who like multiple men (usually at the same time but not always) that I realized that many single women didn’t care about hooking up with couples at all, for many of them it wasn’t even on their radar.
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